Hello, my Name is ... And I'm an Emotional Masochist. I had someone say to me that I'm not an emotional masochist because I don't actually "enjoy" the negative feelings. head tilts Am i doing my kink wrong?
I'm not sure if they think I should get giddy and dance around when feeling these things or what. A physical masochist still says "ouch" or some form of vent. An emotional masochist still cries and gets depressed.
It's what you feed on that makes you what you are. What you crave. You people into humiliation and degradation still feel humiliated and ashamed, right? The only difference between you and someone who does not enjoy it is, you get aroused by it and crave more, right?
So, when I cry or get depressed over a situation (that I asked for or not sometimes), wouldn't the defining moment be whether or not I got aroused and wanted more? So, unless this person asked me if I was horny and craving more, then they'd have no clue as to the validity of my being an emotional masochist, correct?
I'm just trying to make sure that I still know my kinks better than people who do not share them
